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		<title>Pathetically White Like Me</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/05/11/pathetically-white-like-me/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 11 May 2009 15:31:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[There is an iconic video that Eddie Murphy did while still on SNL called &#8220;White Like Me.&#8221; Through the most banal of daily encounters, a newsstand, a bus ride, a trip to the bank, we are treated to an outrageously funny look at what it means to be white and glide through life unencumbered by [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Trying On Another Hat</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/04/30/trying-on-another-hat/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 30 Apr 2009 22:30:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;m big on window shopping. Mostly, I like to go out and shop, see all the things I want, not be able to settle on anything, and then buy some things for the kids. It&#8217;s easier somehow. I know what would make them smile. Knowing what would make me smile is a much harder nut [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Blake Learns to Read</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/02/25/blake-learns-to-read/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Feb 2009 15:23:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[When my son Blake first began speaking, my wonder was accompanied by a pang of sadness. I was going to miss the seemingly endless, undefinable ways that non-verbal language connects two human brains. We would begin to be bound by the limits of words and syntax. As much as I love writing, I am keenly [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Not In the Stars, But In Ourselves</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/02/11/in-ourselves/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Feb 2009 03:43:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[We have a new direction to run to with our torches and pitchforks. An unwed mother of six, living with her parents and collecting disability, has IVF and gives birth to 8 more. Who do we get most outraged at (because we LOVE that stuff!)? The mother? The doctor? Misguided folks who consider mental difficulties [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Gratitude List (Again)</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/02/10/gratitude-list-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2009 13:37:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[It&#8217;s a technique for not getting too bogged down in the &#8220;poor-me&#8217;s&#8221;. Making a gratitude list, when I&#8217;m not irritated about it, is a way to skew my thinking about my life so that the narrative of &#8220;what if&#8221; doesn&#8217;t bog me down. My drug of choice, after all, remains self-pity.
So, here it is, once [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fighting the Previous War</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/26/fighting-the-previous-war/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 27 Jan 2009 03:36:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Mihiret had her first ballet class today. There&#8217;s a lot of history in my sending her for ballet, and none of it hers. As with all things in life, we plan one war with the goals and tactics of the previous one. But, this time, darn it, this time&#8230;we&#8217;re gonna win!
Mihiret is a girlie-girl who [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Fall Back Life</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/24/fall-back-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 24 Jan 2009 16:04:44 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[You know the saying: &#8220;Get something to fall back on, and you will fall back.&#8221; In my case, it all goes back to my unwillingness to rebel against my parents&#8217; discouragement of a career as musician and performer. I needed a realistic career to fall back on, and I indeed have always fallen back.
The problem [...]]]></description>
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		<title>My Generation</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/21/my-generation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jan 2009 05:11:05 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[OBAMA!!
I just had to get that out.
I&#8217;ve written in this space about belonging to the generation sandwiched between the Boomers and Gen X. Our generation is now labeled in Wikipedia (the online version of an all-knowing god) as &#8220;Generation Jones.&#8221; (This is really, really dumb, and is thus consistent with the clothes from our generation). [...]]]></description>
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		<title>Everything Old is New Again</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/09/everything-old-is-new-again/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 09 Jan 2009 16:04:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[I spent my childhood years in Suffern, NY. It&#8217;s a little town just over the Jersey border, known to most as a sign along the NY Thruway on the way upstate. For some strange reason, I did not blog about this last October &#8212; perhaps because I was occupied with Mihiret more at that time, [...]]]></description>
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		<title>16 Years and Still Recovering</title>
		<link>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/07/16-years-and-still-recovering/</link>
		<comments>http://againsttheglass.com/againsttheglass/2009/01/07/16-years-and-still-recovering/#comments</comments>
		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Jan 2009 04:09:08 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Cathy</dc:creator>
		
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		<description><![CDATA[Today marks my 16th year of sobriety. Whenever my anniversary comes up, I&#8217;m always taken back to the time when I first gave up and gave in. It all seemed pretty simple, if difficult, then. &#8220;Don&#8217;t drink and go to meetings.&#8221; I had a stupid sobriety job and a lot of free time on my [...]]]></description>
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